Saturday, March 27, 2010
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Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Virtual Love Affair
Both my sister are happily married now to their wonderful husband that they met online. Well, the younger one she met her husband on a dating site in some paper while the older one she met her husband in a dating site online. They dated online for more than a year before decided to take their relationship to the next level. When their husbands came to visit our country that was when the time the got serious and start processing all the paper works so they can moved to the US. Not all virtual relationship ended up on marriage as there are also some got hurt in virtual love affair. That is why it is very important to get to know the person well before gambling your feelings into virtual relationship. Just like in real life some people are contented in dating and fling but afraid of commitment. Online dating is very in right now to a lot of single men and women who is looking for special person or soul mate. There is tons of dating site online now that brings successful relationship and shares insights on how to succeed with online dating. Keep in mind also that there are pervert and nasty person online who is just looking for fun. It's safer to find a date in an online dating site that is private to keep your personal profile safe and secured. So, good luck to your virtual love affair.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Little Nieces
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Tuesday, March 16, 2010
3 Reasons You're Still Single
It's not them, nor you it's Me or Us rather.
Being single can be sensational.. this is what I read in one of the article I read online. You perhaps wondering why you are still single and thought that the right man hasn't come yet for you, or you may tell yourself there's no one worthy in your area or that all the good ones are taken. The truth, however, is that the problem may just be you. This is really true in some way. We are not ugly fugly sisters but I think we are just too picky thats why we are still single now. Well, for the record atleast we have boyfriends waaaaaaaaaaaa.
Before you go raising your arms in defense, spouting about what a great catch you think you are, let down your guard and ask yourself if any of the following sound familiar. After all, you may actually be the catch of the century, but what does that matter if nobody else gets to know it?! Do you wanna know the 3 reasons why you, you you are still single? Here you go;
You Project Being Too Together
Everyone wants to put their best foot forward, sure … but there's a difference between being your best you and making yourself seem so together (read: set in your ways) that you don't need -- or have room for -- anyone in your life. What you may consider your strengths might just be signals that you're fine just as you are. As a result, prospective partners might believe that they should keep on walking, since odds are they won't measure up to your standards. Sound familiar? Is your schedule is so rigid that you can't bend it to accommodate a date? Is your checklist is so precise that you turn partners away for the wrong hair color or shoes? Your vision of exactly how things should be might just be getting in the way of how they could be.
1~You Project Being Too Together
Everyone wants to put their best foot forward, sure … but there's a difference between being your best you and making yourself seem so together (read: set in your ways) that you don't need -- or have room for -- anyone in your life. What you may consider your strengths might just be signals that you're fine just as you are. As a result, prospective partners might believe that they should keep on walking, since odds are they won't measure up to your standards.
This is actually sounds so familiar. When my older sister was still single she put wall of her self and guys thought that she has a standard when it comes to men. But when she tried to go dating and let those guy court him then she found her husband.
2~You Project Incomplete
On the opposite end of the spectrum are those of us who have spent our lives preparing for the perfect mate. Trouble is, what you see as preparing may seem to others like waiting … Translation: you've put yourself on hold in hopes of finding someone to complete you. The trouble with that mentality is that a great partner will enhance your life, but they can't complete you … only you can do that for yourself.
And until you do, you may continue to scare off otherwise great matches who perceive you as desperate and/or don't want the pressure your choices imply (marry me now!). So, if you're still living at home well out of your twenties with a hope chest of housewares in the basement for when you meet 'the one,' it's time to consider getting on with it already. The more you risks you take for yourself and your own good, the greater rewards you'll reap in love and in life.
3~You Actually Want to Be Single
Lastly, you may be out every Friday, on three different dating sites and putting the word out to your friends that you're open to (nay, eager for) fix-ups, but believe it or not, there's a good chance that you actually like your life just as it is. Clues that this is the case? Choosing people you know in your gut aren't for you to go out with anyway -- just to 'kill time,' and then rejecting other potential quality dates for reasons unknown -- even to yourself.
It's ok if you want to be single, but if you don't (and you're acting like this), take a second and ask yourself what's really going on. Fear (of being hurt, of being vulnerable, of commitment… of anything) can seem overwhelming, but only by facing yours will you have any chance of finding happiness with someone else.
So, single ladies out there like me and my sister maybe this information will give the answers of your question why you are still single. So, read it and don't blame God for you single life hehehe just kidding.
For more interesting articles about relationships and love check out california Psychics.com and subcribe to their news letter.
Being single can be sensational.. this is what I read in one of the article I read online. You perhaps wondering why you are still single and thought that the right man hasn't come yet for you, or you may tell yourself there's no one worthy in your area or that all the good ones are taken. The truth, however, is that the problem may just be you. This is really true in some way. We are not ugly fugly sisters but I think we are just too picky thats why we are still single now. Well, for the record atleast we have boyfriends waaaaaaaaaaaa.
Before you go raising your arms in defense, spouting about what a great catch you think you are, let down your guard and ask yourself if any of the following sound familiar. After all, you may actually be the catch of the century, but what does that matter if nobody else gets to know it?! Do you wanna know the 3 reasons why you, you you are still single? Here you go;
You Project Being Too Together
Everyone wants to put their best foot forward, sure … but there's a difference between being your best you and making yourself seem so together (read: set in your ways) that you don't need -- or have room for -- anyone in your life. What you may consider your strengths might just be signals that you're fine just as you are. As a result, prospective partners might believe that they should keep on walking, since odds are they won't measure up to your standards. Sound familiar? Is your schedule is so rigid that you can't bend it to accommodate a date? Is your checklist is so precise that you turn partners away for the wrong hair color or shoes? Your vision of exactly how things should be might just be getting in the way of how they could be.
1~You Project Being Too Together
Everyone wants to put their best foot forward, sure … but there's a difference between being your best you and making yourself seem so together (read: set in your ways) that you don't need -- or have room for -- anyone in your life. What you may consider your strengths might just be signals that you're fine just as you are. As a result, prospective partners might believe that they should keep on walking, since odds are they won't measure up to your standards.
This is actually sounds so familiar. When my older sister was still single she put wall of her self and guys thought that she has a standard when it comes to men. But when she tried to go dating and let those guy court him then she found her husband.
2~You Project Incomplete
On the opposite end of the spectrum are those of us who have spent our lives preparing for the perfect mate. Trouble is, what you see as preparing may seem to others like waiting … Translation: you've put yourself on hold in hopes of finding someone to complete you. The trouble with that mentality is that a great partner will enhance your life, but they can't complete you … only you can do that for yourself.
And until you do, you may continue to scare off otherwise great matches who perceive you as desperate and/or don't want the pressure your choices imply (marry me now!). So, if you're still living at home well out of your twenties with a hope chest of housewares in the basement for when you meet 'the one,' it's time to consider getting on with it already. The more you risks you take for yourself and your own good, the greater rewards you'll reap in love and in life.
3~You Actually Want to Be Single
Lastly, you may be out every Friday, on three different dating sites and putting the word out to your friends that you're open to (nay, eager for) fix-ups, but believe it or not, there's a good chance that you actually like your life just as it is. Clues that this is the case? Choosing people you know in your gut aren't for you to go out with anyway -- just to 'kill time,' and then rejecting other potential quality dates for reasons unknown -- even to yourself.
It's ok if you want to be single, but if you don't (and you're acting like this), take a second and ask yourself what's really going on. Fear (of being hurt, of being vulnerable, of commitment… of anything) can seem overwhelming, but only by facing yours will you have any chance of finding happiness with someone else.
So, single ladies out there like me and my sister maybe this information will give the answers of your question why you are still single. So, read it and don't blame God for you single life hehehe just kidding.
For more interesting articles about relationships and love check out california Psychics.com and subcribe to their news letter.
I am Invited
I am the youngest in the family but with my situations right now seems like I am the eldest. My siblings moved out from our house when they graduated high school and got a job in the place where they spent their college days. I stayed at home with my parents and then just few years ago my other sister moved back home. I'm in my mid-twenties already and most of my friends are married now. My parents was wondering when me and my sister going to get married. When I got an invitation from my other friends wedding I don't understand the electric feeling that went through my spine. All of a sudden I felt so alone and lonely because once she is married she can't hang out with us that often. I am happy for her and her future husband though that's why I help her look for a place to where they can order cheap invitations for their wedding. We actually checked online and we found a websites that offers discounts on wedding invitations as well as cheap party favors and others. You can get a cheap invitations and stylish too at their sites. I'm happy I able to help with her wedding preparations. I still have one older sister whom I look forward to get hitch someday. She will be turning thirties soon and definitely not getting any younger.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
New Member of the Family
Meet the new members of our family. Aren't they cute? Next time I'll introduced another new puppy of my sister. These are my babies who keep me occupied during my jobless time. They makes me happy and I love taking care of them. I have a cat too but I forgot to take pictures of mingkay. Pets are wonderful bestfriends don't you think?
Quality Used Cars
Not all of us can afford to buy a new car these days. It is not practical and expensive too. With our struggling economy perhaps all our monthly earnings are enough for our personal needs. So, buying used cars is the way to go. It's practical and affordable. There are high quality used cars on the market today that are on sale with good working condition. It's affordable and high quality. Check out online now and find the best car you want.
Thursday, March 11, 2010
My Pet J-fox
Get your dog a sombrero
Meet my Dog J-fox. He was still young in this photo. Right now he is huge and very noisy. I love animals like dogs, cats, rabbit, fish, and anything that I can pet on. J-fos was one of my favorite dog even if there is no special features or breeding this animal has. He is just an ordinary dog in the place. We called this kind of breed as "Askal" or asong kalye(stray dog) but he is not living on the street. I share to you guys some of J-fox activity. Thats all for today, have a good day!
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Meet my Dog J-fox. He was still young in this photo. Right now he is huge and very noisy. I love animals like dogs, cats, rabbit, fish, and anything that I can pet on. J-fos was one of my favorite dog even if there is no special features or breeding this animal has. He is just an ordinary dog in the place. We called this kind of breed as "Askal" or asong kalye(stray dog) but he is not living on the street. I share to you guys some of J-fox activity. Thats all for today, have a good day!
A jazz lodges a transcript below a defensive hello.
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Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Motivation Welcome Kit
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1. Let Go of the Past
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Before you can create a better future, you must let go of
the pains in your past. Failing once does not mean you will
fail forever. Learn from your history, but don't let it
stand as an obstacle between you and your dreams.
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2. Remember Success
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Just as important as learning from and overcoming past
failure is recalling past success. It doesn't matter who
you are, you have succeeded at something at sometime in
your past. Don't gloss over these moments. Use them to
remind you that you can in fact achieve your goals.
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3. Realize the Possibilities
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It's possible. The dreams you hold in your heart but push
to the back of your mind are within your reach. Accept the
fact that you can create a better life. This will serve as
the springboard of belief you need to succeed.
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4. Dream the Big Dream
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In order for dreams and desires to inspire you to action
and achievement, they need to be big. If you don't get
excited about what you have planned for the future, you
will never find the inspiration you need to change your
life. Powerful dreams can move the soul, and when you dream
the big dream, you will be driven to make the compelling
picture a tangible reality.
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5. Thinking Your Way to Change
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No matter how bad you want it to happen, change will never
result from thinking alone - you must take action. The
world is swimming in dreamers, but only those who act on
their desires achieve truly remarkable results.
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6. A Daily Habit to Begin Today
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Set aside at least 30 minutes each night to review your day
and plan for the next. It's a simple way to add an element
of control to your life. Also, beginning this habit today
will help tremendously when you begin to work toward
your exciting and inspiring goals and dreams.
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7. Mix It Up
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The wrong routine can spell certain doom for your goals and
dreams. To make sure this doesn't happen to you, add at
least one new step to your daily routine to help break up
the pattern. One new activity will set the stage for many
more in the future, making it possible for you to break
free of any negative routines.
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8. A Team Sport
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Don't go at this alone. Achieving a goal or dream requires
a team effort. There will be times when you feel like
giving up, when you feel like it's too much to take. One of
the surest ways to overcome these small setbacks is to have
the support and guidance of your goal partner.
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9. Get Excited About What's to Come
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You are on your way to getting everything you have ever
wanted! Now is the time to get excited and inspired about
what your future holds. Imagine living your ideal life -
now make it happen!
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10. Raise Your Standards
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It's time to raise your standards. It's time to expect more
out of yourself than anyone else. Accept nothing less than
your absolute best in all that you do and you'll have no
problem creating your ideal life. After all, you'd expect
nothing less than living the life of your dreams.
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11. Take Ownership
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Before positive changes can take place, you must take
responsibility for your position in life. You are in
control of your future and are the only one who can
guarantee a better life. If you play the role of a victim,
giving up control and ownership of your life, you will
never enjoy the amazing opportunities that life offers to
us all.
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12. Write in a Journal
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A million thoughts may rush through your mind each day, but
if you do nothing to capture them, they often disappear as
quickly as they came. Take time to write in a journal each
week. This will not only help you overcome obstacles you are
facing in your life but also help you discover what you
really want.
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13. Whom Do You Admire?
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Make a list of at least three people that you admire. With
your list in hand describe what it is that you most respect
about each individual. Often pinpointing what we admire in
others offers insight into what we wish to become
ourselves.
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14. The Moment
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Remember a time when everything seemed to be going just
right? When nothing could get you down? When you thought to
yourself, 'This moment, right now, is what life is all
about.' We all have moments in life when we feel we are at
our best, but most people don't utilize them. Use the
special moments in your life to bring to light goals and
desires that are sure to fulfill your needs. Learning from
and building on these times will help you create magic
moments on a daily basis for the rest of your life.
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15. A Friendly Brainstorming Session
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Gather a group of your closest friends, the ones who know
you better than anyone else, and use their knowledge about
you and your life to help you brainstorm goal and dream
ideas. They will likely offer ideas you never considered
yourself.
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16. What don't you want?
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Sometimes the easiest way to uncover what you want is to
know exactly what you don't want. It all depends on your
particular personality. Some find it very difficult to
create specific goals, but these same people have no
trouble explaining in detail what they hate. Sometimes
working in the opposite direction of what you hate can be
the key to discovering your goals and dreams.
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17. Keep a Notebook in Goal-Creating Areas
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Watching television offers hundreds of ideas that you can
use to help you create your own personal goals. The same is
true of your sleep. Because of this it's vital that you
keep a notebook handy while watching television and on your
nightstand to jot down any goal ideas that come to you.
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18. Impossible to Fail
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People are more than capable of creating compelling dreams,
but the fear of failure often clouds the path. To avoid
this pitfall, imagine that it is impossible to fail. What
dreams and desires would you pursue if you were guaranteed
success?
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19. Your Ideal Life
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Think ahead. Imagine living your ideal life in five years.
Then ten and twenty years. What would you be doing? With
whom would you be doing it? What would your life look like
on a daily basis? Use the picture of a future life to
create goals and desires in the present.
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20. Get Specific
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In order for you to create lasting change in your life, you
have to be super specific about what you want. Vague ideas
just won't cut it. The more specific you make your desires,
the easier it will be to act on them. Cloudy hopes create
obstacles. You have to know exactly what you want, down to
the smallest detail.
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21. Write it Down
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When you get an idea for a goal you'd like to achieve
write it down immediately. The simple act of writing your
goals down on a sheet of paper will bring them one step
closer to reality. Saying something is one thing, but when
you actually see the words written down it becomes a
living, breathing thing.
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22. Small Steps to Great Success
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While the nature of your dreams needs to inspire, you must
also recognize the fact that it takes only small steps to
create amazing changes. The dream will lead the way, but
it won't come in one giant leap. Small steps, carried out
each day, will bring you to the destinations you seek.
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23. Who Are You Living For?
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Many times people will accept the status quo because they
are afraid of what other people would think of them if
they strived for more. Fitting in becomes more important
than moving ahead. Decide here and now that creating the
life you want to live is far more important than blending
in and living for the approval of others.
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24. Search for Success Stories
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The stories of individuals overcoming all odds and
achieving their dreams surround you. Seek out and make
these stories a part of your life. You are not alone in
your search for happiness. Knowing that others have
succeeded in the past can be enough to motivate you to
succeed in the future.
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25. The Overnight Success Myth
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Success takes time. People who believe in the overnight
success expect amazing results the minute they start
working toward their goal. It's not going to happen. Don't
let this get you down - it's a positive. When you know the
truth about success you won't become upset when immediate
results can't be seen.
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26. Measure Your Progress
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As you begin putting the pieces of your desire in place, be
sure to measure your progress along the way. Doing so will
help to keep you motivated to achieve the goal as you see
real improvement taking place. You will also be able to
recognize troubling areas that need more attention or
successful methods that could be spread to others aspects
of the goal.
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27. Educate Yourself
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The more you know, the more you'll grow. Information is the
greatest resource you have as you work toward creating a
better life. Facts help to increase your confidence, break
down fear, and inspire you to action. Learn all there is to
know about what you want and you will never be without the
drive and energy you need to make it happen.
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28. Make Autobiographies Part of Your Library
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Learning about the lives of the people who achieved the
goals you want to achieve is one of the most inspiring
techniques available. Find out who had the same aspirations
and learn all you can about their inspiring story.
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29. Essentials of Change
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It doesn't matter what you want, someone at sometime
throughout history has desired and achieved the same thing.
Not only does this prove that your dreams are possible but
also that you have what it takes to make them happen.
People have done so much with so little, proving that the
essential requirements of creating change are within you.
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30. Become Aware of Your Thoughts
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The wrong thoughts played enough times in your mind can sap
the strength of anyone's confidence. Become aware of the
things you say to yourself. Every time you come to a
negative phrase stop yourself, refute the belief with
logic, and replace it with a strong and empowering thought.
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31. Say and See
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For those with phobias simply mentioning their particular
fear puts them in a frightened state of mind. They may
even exhibit physical signs of fear. The same is true of
goals and dreams. Many times the second you say your goal
images of failure and fear pop into your head. To fix the
problem, consciously say your goal and imagine success
again and again until it becomes ingrained in your mind.
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32. What's In It for Me?
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As you begin taking steps toward the things you desire, you
will meet with many obstacles along the way that have the
potential to knock you off course forever. To ensure this
doesn't happen to you, answer the question: What's in it
for me? Knowing exactly why you are reaching for more will
serve as a constant source of energy and excitement to keep
you going strong in the face of short-term setbacks.
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33. Ask Yourself a Question
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What's the worst thing that will happen if you give up on
your goal? This and other thoughts like them are useful
tools. Fear of what could happen if you don't succeed
shouldn't be the main reason you work toward your goal, but
it is an excellent tool to help you get started.
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34. What's Holding You Back?
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Take time to really think about what's holding you back
from working toward and achieving your goal. Too often
people get a 'feeling' and quit on their dreams. You can't
fight or solve a vague feeling, but you can solve a
specific problem. That's why it's critical for you to
zero in on exactly what's holding you back from success.
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35. Share the Excitement
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Don't keep your plans for a better future to yourself -
share the excitement with those who will not see it as
bragging or your ego taking over. This will make the dream
more tangible, and include others in the picture who will
ask about your progress and keep you heading in the right
direction.
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36. If Not Now, When?
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This is a simple method to adding a powerful boost to your
goal-achieving project. People are gifted at the art of
rationalization and procrastination. To put a stop to them
ask yourself, 'If not now, when?' If you're honest, and I
know you will be, you'll realize that now is as good a time
as any to begin moving toward a better life.
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37. Your Excuses Have No Uses
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Excuses are scapegoats. They cover up the truth so we don't
have to face it. You and I both know this isn't the way to
a happy and successful life. You have to put a stop to
excuses once and for all. Every time you catch yourself
using an excuse to cover up the truth about why you aren't
working toward your goal (e.g. I don't have the time),
write it down along with at least three solid reasons why
your excuse is completely wrong. And never use it again.
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38. Fear is Part of the Puzzle
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If you're waiting for a guaranteed success, you'll be
waiting for the rest of your life. Fear is part of the
process of success - there's no way around it. You might
think that the people you look up to are free of fear as
they work toward their dreams you are mistaken. Everyone
feels fear when they take a step outside of their comfort
zone, the question is whether or not you keep going.
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39. Place Reminders in the Home and Office
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Place powerful reminders around your home or office about
the goals and desires you are working to achieve. With the
hectic pace of life in today's society it's easy to forget
about the truly important things. Placing pictures in your
home of the ideal body you are dreaming about or the home
you wish to build are effective tools to keep you going
strong.
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40. The First Step
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A single step in the right direction is all it takes to put
in motion great things. Every written masterpiece begins
with a single word on a page. Every long journey begins
with a single step. The things you desire most will be no
different. Write down on a clean sheet of paper the
absolute first step your goal requires - then do it.
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41. A Part of Your Identity
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When success becomes a part of your identity, a part of who
you are, you'll find getting motivated to do more with your
life is an easy task. People stick to what they believe
they are. In other words, a quitter will quit before he
succeeds; a winner will get exactly what he wants in the
end. Don't just think like a winner - become one inside and
out until the thought of quitting conflicts so strongly
with who you are that you are driven to succeed.
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42. What Company do You Keep?
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Most often people mirror their environments. The friends
and family members you associate with play a major role in
your life - both positive and negative. Ask yourself if
the people in your life are helping you become the person
you want to be or are standing in the way of progress. If
changes need to be made, follow through.
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43. The Truth about Change
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You will fail. Not once, not twice, but many, many times.
This is how the game works. Believing that you will be able
to achieve a lofty goal or dream without a hitch is like
believe you can play perfect golf without a single step on
a course. It's not negative, it's reality. And a true
success uses this as an advantage. When something doesn't
go according to plan an adjustment is made and the process
resumes. A short-term setback will never bring an end to
their ambition.
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44. Know When to Keep Quiet
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Just as important as sharing your goal with those who will
offer guidance and support is not sharing your goal with
those who will resent your improvement and take a jab at
you with every chance they get. Naysayers are killers of
the spirit. When it comes to these individuals, keep your
goal to yourself.
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45. If It Works Once, Use It Again!
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Have you ever watched a movie that really moved you? Read
a book that inspired a change in your life? Listened to an
audio tape that motivated you to take action? If you're
like most people, I'm sure you've experienced one or more
of these. But do you revisit them on a regular basis?
People will find a tool that inspires them only to leave it
behind. If something motivates you, use it again and again.
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46. Organize Your Space
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A cluttered space leads to a cluttered mind. Taking a few
hours to clean up your common work areas will go a long way
in helping you maintain clarity and focus while working
toward your goals.
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47. Everyone Needs a Day Off
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Sometimes the best way to stay motivated to achieve your
goal is to give it a rest. When things don't seem to be
going your way or you simply feel exhausted, put your goal
out of mind until the next day. Take a walk, a ride, or
just sit and relax. This short break will allow you to
return to the project with renewed energy and enthusiasm.
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48. Choose to Think About What You Want
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With everything you have to think about each day, the
things you desire won't always get the time they deserve.
You have to choose to think about what you want to change
in your life, or your dreams will very likely be left
behind.
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49. Subscribe to Magazines, Newspapers, and Newsletters
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Information is a major part of success. To stay motivated
to change your life you need a constant flow of new and
exciting information flowing into your mind. If possible,
subscribe to at least one magazine, newspaper, or
newsletter that focuses on the subject of your goal.
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50. Use the Library!
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As simple as it sounds, get and use your library card!
Books are among the cheapest (if you use your card, that
is) and most effective success tools around. You can
learn most anything from a well-written book. Accept this
fact right here and now: if you don't like to read, you'll
never reach your true potential.
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51. Create a Specific Strategy
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When you know exactly what you want, you have to know
exactly how you are going to get it. Just as a vague idea
of what you want will never lead to success, a hazy notion
of how you will achieve your dreams will bring about the
same fate. Super specific strategies will result in
success. Anything less will make improvement difficult, if
not impossible, to enjoy.
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52. Use a Timeline
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Your dreams need a timeline. This includes not only a
deadline but also a time to begin. Without a definite
timeline, potentially rewarding and fulfilling goals may
silently slip away until they become only distant memories.
When will you begin working toward your dreams? When will
you achieve them?
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53. Tools of the Trade
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To accomplish the task above, charts and checklists are the
way to go. Charts are the perfect tool to measure
incremental goals such as a savings or investment plan. If
your desire is more sequential in nature, simply list the
steps in a checklist along with their deadline to keep you
right on track from start to finish.
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54. Intelligent Action
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Action is key to change - but not just any action. Eating
unhealthy foods is action, but it is definitely not the
kind of moves you should be making if your goal is to get
in shape. The secret is to take intelligent action. Learn
how to make the right moves and you'll be on your way to
enjoying an amazing quality of life.
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55. Windows of Opportunity
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What you see today will not necessarily mirror the picture
of tomorrow. In other words - things change. You can never
know for sure how long the opportunity to act will offer
itself. It could vanish tomorrow or in twenty years. The
point is: Today is the certainty in your world. Make the
best of it.
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56. Use Your Time Wisely
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The one thing we all desire more of but lose every day is
time. Because of this, you need to take steps to ensure
your time is being used wisely. Discover where your time
goes each day and how you can better utilize each minute
and hour.
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57. Get Active
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An inspired mind is of little use if you lack the physical
vitality to execute your plans. Get active and get moving.
Whether this means a daily exercise program or simply
riding your bike to work, think of as many ways as possible
to be active in your daily life.
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58. Maintain a Healthy Diet
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Just as important as an active lifestyle is a healthy diet.
You can't expect to have the energy and drive necessary to
live an extraordinary life if you continue to fill your
body with unhealthy foods. What you put in your body has an
enormous impact on your motivation to improve.
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59. Get Enough Rest
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Your body cannot perform at its peak levels if you don't
give it the time it requires for rest and repair. Four
hours of sleep each night will eventually catch up with
you. Get the rest you need and you'll have no problem
working with passion toward your desires.
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60. Collect Your Favorite Quotations
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The written word can be just as powerful as movies. When
you come across a quotation that motivates you to achieve
your goals, don't let it go! Write them down, save them on
your computer, or do whatever works for you to keep them
close at hand.
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61. Learn from Your Mistakes
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When things don't work out exactly as you had planned (this
will happen) don't waste the opportunity to learn
something. A short-term failure is a good thing - it
teaches you how 'not' to do something, which will bring you
closer and closer to the solution you seek.
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62. Constant Curiosity
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Be curious. The world can be a truly amazing place when you
take the time to look around and learn about it. Read,
converse, observe, listen, and discover the miracles that
surround you. Constant curiosity is the habit that is sure
to get you excited about your world, your life, and your
future.
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63. Spend Time with Children
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Spending time with kids is a great way to let go of your
worries and reconnect with your more innocent past. As
adults, we have learned to hide our true emotions and keep
a reserved attitude. Children have a great lesson to teach
us - have fun and enjoy life. Maintain your youthful ways
as you continue to grow older.
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64. Focus on Others
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There is no better way to improve your life than to help
others do the same. To give is to get, and when it comes to
spreading happiness and joy to others, it has never been
more true. As your focus turns from yourself to those in
need you will find that your own problems seem less
important and may even disappear altogether.
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65. Volunteer Your Time
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An effective method to help others is volunteering. Your
time is the most precious resource you have, and giving it
to someone else is a truly rewarding experience. Contact
your local churches, community center, or public schools
for volunteer opportunities.
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66. The Ups and Downs
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You will not always be motivated to succeed. We all have
our ups and downs, and expecting anything different will
create frustration and anger. We all get upset, encounter
setbacks, and have bad days, but here's the secret: you can
visit, but just don't live there.
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67. Your Contribution
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What are you going to contribute to the world after you
have gone? Living an extraordinary life requires thinking
beyond yourself and giving back to the world in some way.
What will your gift to the world be?
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68. Be Grateful for What You Have
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Take time out of each day to be grateful for the things you
have in your life. Simply being alive and well is an amazing
gift - anything more is just icing on the cake. Appreciate
what you have and you will discover a renewed passion to
achieve the desires you have yet to experience.
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69. Starting in the Right Direction
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You may not realize it, but you've already taken a massive
step toward success. Simply reading these words
demonstrates your desire to enhance the quality of your
life. Now that you've taken the first step, keep it going
day after day, month after month, year after year.
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70. Enjoy the Ride
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While you're working your tail off to create a better life
for you and your family it's important to enjoy the
experience. Don't just focus on the outcome. It's like
taking a road trip through beautiful country with your eyes
closed thinking only about the destination. You'll miss out
half the joy of success if you forget about the experience
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1. Let Go of the Past
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Before you can create a better future, you must let go of
the pains in your past. Failing once does not mean you will
fail forever. Learn from your history, but don't let it
stand as an obstacle between you and your dreams.
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2. Remember Success
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Just as important as learning from and overcoming past
failure is recalling past success. It doesn't matter who
you are, you have succeeded at something at sometime in
your past. Don't gloss over these moments. Use them to
remind you that you can in fact achieve your goals.
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3. Realize the Possibilities
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It's possible. The dreams you hold in your heart but push
to the back of your mind are within your reach. Accept the
fact that you can create a better life. This will serve as
the springboard of belief you need to succeed.
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4. Dream the Big Dream
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In order for dreams and desires to inspire you to action
and achievement, they need to be big. If you don't get
excited about what you have planned for the future, you
will never find the inspiration you need to change your
life. Powerful dreams can move the soul, and when you dream
the big dream, you will be driven to make the compelling
picture a tangible reality.
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5. Thinking Your Way to Change
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No matter how bad you want it to happen, change will never
result from thinking alone - you must take action. The
world is swimming in dreamers, but only those who act on
their desires achieve truly remarkable results.
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6. A Daily Habit to Begin Today
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Set aside at least 30 minutes each night to review your day
and plan for the next. It's a simple way to add an element
of control to your life. Also, beginning this habit today
will help tremendously when you begin to work toward
your exciting and inspiring goals and dreams.
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7. Mix It Up
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The wrong routine can spell certain doom for your goals and
dreams. To make sure this doesn't happen to you, add at
least one new step to your daily routine to help break up
the pattern. One new activity will set the stage for many
more in the future, making it possible for you to break
free of any negative routines.
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8. A Team Sport
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Don't go at this alone. Achieving a goal or dream requires
a team effort. There will be times when you feel like
giving up, when you feel like it's too much to take. One of
the surest ways to overcome these small setbacks is to have
the support and guidance of your goal partner.
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9. Get Excited About What's to Come
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You are on your way to getting everything you have ever
wanted! Now is the time to get excited and inspired about
what your future holds. Imagine living your ideal life -
now make it happen!
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10. Raise Your Standards
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It's time to raise your standards. It's time to expect more
out of yourself than anyone else. Accept nothing less than
your absolute best in all that you do and you'll have no
problem creating your ideal life. After all, you'd expect
nothing less than living the life of your dreams.
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11. Take Ownership
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Before positive changes can take place, you must take
responsibility for your position in life. You are in
control of your future and are the only one who can
guarantee a better life. If you play the role of a victim,
giving up control and ownership of your life, you will
never enjoy the amazing opportunities that life offers to
us all.
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12. Write in a Journal
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A million thoughts may rush through your mind each day, but
if you do nothing to capture them, they often disappear as
quickly as they came. Take time to write in a journal each
week. This will not only help you overcome obstacles you are
facing in your life but also help you discover what you
really want.
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13. Whom Do You Admire?
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Make a list of at least three people that you admire. With
your list in hand describe what it is that you most respect
about each individual. Often pinpointing what we admire in
others offers insight into what we wish to become
ourselves.
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14. The Moment
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Remember a time when everything seemed to be going just
right? When nothing could get you down? When you thought to
yourself, 'This moment, right now, is what life is all
about.' We all have moments in life when we feel we are at
our best, but most people don't utilize them. Use the
special moments in your life to bring to light goals and
desires that are sure to fulfill your needs. Learning from
and building on these times will help you create magic
moments on a daily basis for the rest of your life.
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15. A Friendly Brainstorming Session
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Gather a group of your closest friends, the ones who know
you better than anyone else, and use their knowledge about
you and your life to help you brainstorm goal and dream
ideas. They will likely offer ideas you never considered
yourself.
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16. What don't you want?
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Sometimes the easiest way to uncover what you want is to
know exactly what you don't want. It all depends on your
particular personality. Some find it very difficult to
create specific goals, but these same people have no
trouble explaining in detail what they hate. Sometimes
working in the opposite direction of what you hate can be
the key to discovering your goals and dreams.
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17. Keep a Notebook in Goal-Creating Areas
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Watching television offers hundreds of ideas that you can
use to help you create your own personal goals. The same is
true of your sleep. Because of this it's vital that you
keep a notebook handy while watching television and on your
nightstand to jot down any goal ideas that come to you.
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18. Impossible to Fail
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People are more than capable of creating compelling dreams,
but the fear of failure often clouds the path. To avoid
this pitfall, imagine that it is impossible to fail. What
dreams and desires would you pursue if you were guaranteed
success?
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19. Your Ideal Life
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Think ahead. Imagine living your ideal life in five years.
Then ten and twenty years. What would you be doing? With
whom would you be doing it? What would your life look like
on a daily basis? Use the picture of a future life to
create goals and desires in the present.
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20. Get Specific
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In order for you to create lasting change in your life, you
have to be super specific about what you want. Vague ideas
just won't cut it. The more specific you make your desires,
the easier it will be to act on them. Cloudy hopes create
obstacles. You have to know exactly what you want, down to
the smallest detail.
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21. Write it Down
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When you get an idea for a goal you'd like to achieve
write it down immediately. The simple act of writing your
goals down on a sheet of paper will bring them one step
closer to reality. Saying something is one thing, but when
you actually see the words written down it becomes a
living, breathing thing.
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22. Small Steps to Great Success
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While the nature of your dreams needs to inspire, you must
also recognize the fact that it takes only small steps to
create amazing changes. The dream will lead the way, but
it won't come in one giant leap. Small steps, carried out
each day, will bring you to the destinations you seek.
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23. Who Are You Living For?
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Many times people will accept the status quo because they
are afraid of what other people would think of them if
they strived for more. Fitting in becomes more important
than moving ahead. Decide here and now that creating the
life you want to live is far more important than blending
in and living for the approval of others.
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24. Search for Success Stories
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The stories of individuals overcoming all odds and
achieving their dreams surround you. Seek out and make
these stories a part of your life. You are not alone in
your search for happiness. Knowing that others have
succeeded in the past can be enough to motivate you to
succeed in the future.
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25. The Overnight Success Myth
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Success takes time. People who believe in the overnight
success expect amazing results the minute they start
working toward their goal. It's not going to happen. Don't
let this get you down - it's a positive. When you know the
truth about success you won't become upset when immediate
results can't be seen.
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26. Measure Your Progress
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As you begin putting the pieces of your desire in place, be
sure to measure your progress along the way. Doing so will
help to keep you motivated to achieve the goal as you see
real improvement taking place. You will also be able to
recognize troubling areas that need more attention or
successful methods that could be spread to others aspects
of the goal.
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27. Educate Yourself
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The more you know, the more you'll grow. Information is the
greatest resource you have as you work toward creating a
better life. Facts help to increase your confidence, break
down fear, and inspire you to action. Learn all there is to
know about what you want and you will never be without the
drive and energy you need to make it happen.
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28. Make Autobiographies Part of Your Library
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Learning about the lives of the people who achieved the
goals you want to achieve is one of the most inspiring
techniques available. Find out who had the same aspirations
and learn all you can about their inspiring story.
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29. Essentials of Change
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It doesn't matter what you want, someone at sometime
throughout history has desired and achieved the same thing.
Not only does this prove that your dreams are possible but
also that you have what it takes to make them happen.
People have done so much with so little, proving that the
essential requirements of creating change are within you.
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30. Become Aware of Your Thoughts
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The wrong thoughts played enough times in your mind can sap
the strength of anyone's confidence. Become aware of the
things you say to yourself. Every time you come to a
negative phrase stop yourself, refute the belief with
logic, and replace it with a strong and empowering thought.
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31. Say and See
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For those with phobias simply mentioning their particular
fear puts them in a frightened state of mind. They may
even exhibit physical signs of fear. The same is true of
goals and dreams. Many times the second you say your goal
images of failure and fear pop into your head. To fix the
problem, consciously say your goal and imagine success
again and again until it becomes ingrained in your mind.
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32. What's In It for Me?
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As you begin taking steps toward the things you desire, you
will meet with many obstacles along the way that have the
potential to knock you off course forever. To ensure this
doesn't happen to you, answer the question: What's in it
for me? Knowing exactly why you are reaching for more will
serve as a constant source of energy and excitement to keep
you going strong in the face of short-term setbacks.
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33. Ask Yourself a Question
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What's the worst thing that will happen if you give up on
your goal? This and other thoughts like them are useful
tools. Fear of what could happen if you don't succeed
shouldn't be the main reason you work toward your goal, but
it is an excellent tool to help you get started.
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34. What's Holding You Back?
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Take time to really think about what's holding you back
from working toward and achieving your goal. Too often
people get a 'feeling' and quit on their dreams. You can't
fight or solve a vague feeling, but you can solve a
specific problem. That's why it's critical for you to
zero in on exactly what's holding you back from success.
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35. Share the Excitement
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Don't keep your plans for a better future to yourself -
share the excitement with those who will not see it as
bragging or your ego taking over. This will make the dream
more tangible, and include others in the picture who will
ask about your progress and keep you heading in the right
direction.
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36. If Not Now, When?
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This is a simple method to adding a powerful boost to your
goal-achieving project. People are gifted at the art of
rationalization and procrastination. To put a stop to them
ask yourself, 'If not now, when?' If you're honest, and I
know you will be, you'll realize that now is as good a time
as any to begin moving toward a better life.
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37. Your Excuses Have No Uses
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Excuses are scapegoats. They cover up the truth so we don't
have to face it. You and I both know this isn't the way to
a happy and successful life. You have to put a stop to
excuses once and for all. Every time you catch yourself
using an excuse to cover up the truth about why you aren't
working toward your goal (e.g. I don't have the time),
write it down along with at least three solid reasons why
your excuse is completely wrong. And never use it again.
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38. Fear is Part of the Puzzle
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If you're waiting for a guaranteed success, you'll be
waiting for the rest of your life. Fear is part of the
process of success - there's no way around it. You might
think that the people you look up to are free of fear as
they work toward their dreams you are mistaken. Everyone
feels fear when they take a step outside of their comfort
zone, the question is whether or not you keep going.
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39. Place Reminders in the Home and Office
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Place powerful reminders around your home or office about
the goals and desires you are working to achieve. With the
hectic pace of life in today's society it's easy to forget
about the truly important things. Placing pictures in your
home of the ideal body you are dreaming about or the home
you wish to build are effective tools to keep you going
strong.
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40. The First Step
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A single step in the right direction is all it takes to put
in motion great things. Every written masterpiece begins
with a single word on a page. Every long journey begins
with a single step. The things you desire most will be no
different. Write down on a clean sheet of paper the
absolute first step your goal requires - then do it.
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41. A Part of Your Identity
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When success becomes a part of your identity, a part of who
you are, you'll find getting motivated to do more with your
life is an easy task. People stick to what they believe
they are. In other words, a quitter will quit before he
succeeds; a winner will get exactly what he wants in the
end. Don't just think like a winner - become one inside and
out until the thought of quitting conflicts so strongly
with who you are that you are driven to succeed.
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you and the life you've always wanted to live. Can you name
them? (You may be surprised when you learn what they are.)
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42. What Company do You Keep?
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Most often people mirror their environments. The friends
and family members you associate with play a major role in
your life - both positive and negative. Ask yourself if
the people in your life are helping you become the person
you want to be or are standing in the way of progress. If
changes need to be made, follow through.
----------------------------------------------
43. The Truth about Change
----------------------------------------------
You will fail. Not once, not twice, but many, many times.
This is how the game works. Believing that you will be able
to achieve a lofty goal or dream without a hitch is like
believe you can play perfect golf without a single step on
a course. It's not negative, it's reality. And a true
success uses this as an advantage. When something doesn't
go according to plan an adjustment is made and the process
resumes. A short-term setback will never bring an end to
their ambition.
----------------------------------------------
44. Know When to Keep Quiet
----------------------------------------------
Just as important as sharing your goal with those who will
offer guidance and support is not sharing your goal with
those who will resent your improvement and take a jab at
you with every chance they get. Naysayers are killers of
the spirit. When it comes to these individuals, keep your
goal to yourself.
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45. If It Works Once, Use It Again!
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Have you ever watched a movie that really moved you? Read
a book that inspired a change in your life? Listened to an
audio tape that motivated you to take action? If you're
like most people, I'm sure you've experienced one or more
of these. But do you revisit them on a regular basis?
People will find a tool that inspires them only to leave it
behind. If something motivates you, use it again and again.
----------------------------------------------
46. Organize Your Space
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A cluttered space leads to a cluttered mind. Taking a few
hours to clean up your common work areas will go a long way
in helping you maintain clarity and focus while working
toward your goals.
----------------------------------------------
47. Everyone Needs a Day Off
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Sometimes the best way to stay motivated to achieve your
goal is to give it a rest. When things don't seem to be
going your way or you simply feel exhausted, put your goal
out of mind until the next day. Take a walk, a ride, or
just sit and relax. This short break will allow you to
return to the project with renewed energy and enthusiasm.
----------------------------------------------
48. Choose to Think About What You Want
----------------------------------------------
With everything you have to think about each day, the
things you desire won't always get the time they deserve.
You have to choose to think about what you want to change
in your life, or your dreams will very likely be left
behind.
----------------------------------------------
49. Subscribe to Magazines, Newspapers, and Newsletters
----------------------------------------------
Information is a major part of success. To stay motivated
to change your life you need a constant flow of new and
exciting information flowing into your mind. If possible,
subscribe to at least one magazine, newspaper, or
newsletter that focuses on the subject of your goal.
----------------------------------------------
50. Use the Library!
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As simple as it sounds, get and use your library card!
Books are among the cheapest (if you use your card, that
is) and most effective success tools around. You can
learn most anything from a well-written book. Accept this
fact right here and now: if you don't like to read, you'll
never reach your true potential.
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51. Create a Specific Strategy
----------------------------------------------
When you know exactly what you want, you have to know
exactly how you are going to get it. Just as a vague idea
of what you want will never lead to success, a hazy notion
of how you will achieve your dreams will bring about the
same fate. Super specific strategies will result in
success. Anything less will make improvement difficult, if
not impossible, to enjoy.
----------------------------------------------
52. Use a Timeline
----------------------------------------------
Your dreams need a timeline. This includes not only a
deadline but also a time to begin. Without a definite
timeline, potentially rewarding and fulfilling goals may
silently slip away until they become only distant memories.
When will you begin working toward your dreams? When will
you achieve them?
----------------------------------------------
53. Tools of the Trade
----------------------------------------------
To accomplish the task above, charts and checklists are the
way to go. Charts are the perfect tool to measure
incremental goals such as a savings or investment plan. If
your desire is more sequential in nature, simply list the
steps in a checklist along with their deadline to keep you
right on track from start to finish.
----------------------------------------------
54. Intelligent Action
----------------------------------------------
Action is key to change - but not just any action. Eating
unhealthy foods is action, but it is definitely not the
kind of moves you should be making if your goal is to get
in shape. The secret is to take intelligent action. Learn
how to make the right moves and you'll be on your way to
enjoying an amazing quality of life.
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55. Windows of Opportunity
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What you see today will not necessarily mirror the picture
of tomorrow. In other words - things change. You can never
know for sure how long the opportunity to act will offer
itself. It could vanish tomorrow or in twenty years. The
point is: Today is the certainty in your world. Make the
best of it.
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56. Use Your Time Wisely
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The one thing we all desire more of but lose every day is
time. Because of this, you need to take steps to ensure
your time is being used wisely. Discover where your time
goes each day and how you can better utilize each minute
and hour.
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57. Get Active
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An inspired mind is of little use if you lack the physical
vitality to execute your plans. Get active and get moving.
Whether this means a daily exercise program or simply
riding your bike to work, think of as many ways as possible
to be active in your daily life.
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58. Maintain a Healthy Diet
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Just as important as an active lifestyle is a healthy diet.
You can't expect to have the energy and drive necessary to
live an extraordinary life if you continue to fill your
body with unhealthy foods. What you put in your body has an
enormous impact on your motivation to improve.
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If you can shift the balance, you can do anything. Discover
what that actually means and how you can start doing it now.
http://www.motivation123.com/prd-stb.html
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59. Get Enough Rest
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Your body cannot perform at its peak levels if you don't
give it the time it requires for rest and repair. Four
hours of sleep each night will eventually catch up with
you. Get the rest you need and you'll have no problem
working with passion toward your desires.
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60. Collect Your Favorite Quotations
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The written word can be just as powerful as movies. When
you come across a quotation that motivates you to achieve
your goals, don't let it go! Write them down, save them on
your computer, or do whatever works for you to keep them
close at hand.
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61. Learn from Your Mistakes
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When things don't work out exactly as you had planned (this
will happen) don't waste the opportunity to learn
something. A short-term failure is a good thing - it
teaches you how 'not' to do something, which will bring you
closer and closer to the solution you seek.
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62. Constant Curiosity
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Be curious. The world can be a truly amazing place when you
take the time to look around and learn about it. Read,
converse, observe, listen, and discover the miracles that
surround you. Constant curiosity is the habit that is sure
to get you excited about your world, your life, and your
future.
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63. Spend Time with Children
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Spending time with kids is a great way to let go of your
worries and reconnect with your more innocent past. As
adults, we have learned to hide our true emotions and keep
a reserved attitude. Children have a great lesson to teach
us - have fun and enjoy life. Maintain your youthful ways
as you continue to grow older.
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64. Focus on Others
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There is no better way to improve your life than to help
others do the same. To give is to get, and when it comes to
spreading happiness and joy to others, it has never been
more true. As your focus turns from yourself to those in
need you will find that your own problems seem less
important and may even disappear altogether.
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65. Volunteer Your Time
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An effective method to help others is volunteering. Your
time is the most precious resource you have, and giving it
to someone else is a truly rewarding experience. Contact
your local churches, community center, or public schools
for volunteer opportunities.
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66. The Ups and Downs
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You will not always be motivated to succeed. We all have
our ups and downs, and expecting anything different will
create frustration and anger. We all get upset, encounter
setbacks, and have bad days, but here's the secret: you can
visit, but just don't live there.
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67. Your Contribution
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What are you going to contribute to the world after you
have gone? Living an extraordinary life requires thinking
beyond yourself and giving back to the world in some way.
What will your gift to the world be?
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68. Be Grateful for What You Have
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Take time out of each day to be grateful for the things you
have in your life. Simply being alive and well is an amazing
gift - anything more is just icing on the cake. Appreciate
what you have and you will discover a renewed passion to
achieve the desires you have yet to experience.
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69. Starting in the Right Direction
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You may not realize it, but you've already taken a massive
step toward success. Simply reading these words
demonstrates your desire to enhance the quality of your
life. Now that you've taken the first step, keep it going
day after day, month after month, year after year.
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70. Enjoy the Ride
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While you're working your tail off to create a better life
for you and your family it's important to enjoy the
experience. Don't just focus on the outcome. It's like
taking a road trip through beautiful country with your eyes
closed thinking only about the destination. You'll miss out
half the joy of success if you forget about the experience
of it all.
Sunday, March 7, 2010
My Motivation
Motivation is the activation or energization of goal-oriented behavior. Motivation is said to be intrinsic or extrinsic. The term is generally used for humans but, theoretically, it can also be used to describe the causes for animal behavior as well. This article refers to human motivation. According to various theories, motivation may be rooted in the basic need to minimize physical pain and maximize pleasure, or it may include specific needs such as eating and resting, or a desired object, hobby, goal, state of being, ideal, or it may be attributed to less-apparent reasons such as altruism, selfishness, morality, or avoiding mortality. Conceptually, motivation should not be confused with either volition or optimism.
My Motivation to strive hard and finished school was my family. They inspired me everyday to do better and work on my dreams. Now that I finished college I have been working so hard to get a job so I could give them a better life. Life is not fair sometimes that I happened to be born in the generations where the economy sucks. Lots of hard working individuals in this country I'm living with but less opportunity for us to take. Everyday we need have to find great motivation so we don't lost our hopes and dreams. Be successfull and achieving your dreams is what every body are aiming to fulfilled and achieved. Let us just keep going and going until we succeed.
Motivation starts with you! As you aspire to be more successful in life, your attitude towards yourself and others will play a huge role. Positive people learn how to handle life's challenges differently and use these opportunities to grow. So can you!
Everyone wants a better life and if you are constantly working on self improvement, you will develop more self-confidence, better self-esteem and greater internal motivation to be the best. When you learn the secrets of teamwork and leadership, interpersonal communication skills and service, you can apply them to all aspects of your daily life.
To those who wants to read news letter, tips on how to get motivated delivered to your every week go check out motivation123.com. Have a wonderful journey to all.
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Aries Daily Love for March 6, 2010
I like reading horoscope everyday. It inspire me if I read positive about my day. Well, for some reason horoscope give some scope of what to expect today, tomorrow and in the future based on astrology. Here is my horoscope for today. Below is an astrology for year of the tiger 2010.
Daily Flirt:
Something only seems impossible, but if you break it down into lots of tiny little steps, it's not only possible -- it's probable. So what are you waiting for? Get started!
Daily Couples:
As befits your sign and style, you're electric at the moment -- but when it comes to being in a relationship, you've also got to be grounded. Make sure you're considering the both of you in terms of the real world.
Daily Singles:
It's time to transform your romantic life and make it what you've always wanted it to be. The stars want you to make the most of this opportunity, so some deep work on your part is necessary right now.
March 6, 2010 - Daily Overview for Chinese Tiger
You could feel as though people are ganging up on you. Try to resist the urge to be paranoid and wary of everyone. Just go about your business as usual and let these feelings fall to the wayside. Most likely your imagination is blowing them out of proportion.
Tiger
1902, 1914, 1926, 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010
Tiger Overview
Your year has arrived, and you are likely to find it more comfortable than most. That does not mean, however, it will be more successful. This could be a case of too much of a good thing. Yes, you are lucky. Yes, you enjoy taking a risk. You can bet the year's ambiance will encourage extremes even beyond your natural inclinations. In other words, you are vulnerable to suffer from overdoing it, from living on the edge and falling off it. You are going to have a few splendid successes in 2010. On the other hand, do not be surprised if your failures are even more spectacular. Self-control wins the day.
Tiger Rating
41% (3 favorable, 1 neutral and 8 unfavorable months)
Tiger Career
Tiger's natural leadership and charisma are enhanced this year, and you may find your ideas and initiatives get more traction than usual. It feels great to be listened to and treated like the boss. The only downside could come if you let this deference go to your head and fail to seek out others' expertise and experiential wisdom. Coworkers are not likely to reign you in, so you need to be extra vigilant to make wise, considered decisions and go out of your way to consult with respected peers and mentors. This year will present opportunities of your wildest imaginings, but you will need abundant self-discipline in order to make them realities. Success is in your reach, but beware of pride and overconfidence; it is not a foregone conclusion.
Tiger Relationships
Personal relationships are likely to be Tiger's strongest suit this year. Your active and rewarding social agenda could be the envy of most others; expect to have fun in 2010. But even this pales in light of your prospects for love. Romantic passion is likely to be at its highest mid-year, which is also a very lucky time for a Tiger to marry. Domesticity could hold much of your attention this year. You may get special satisfaction in 2010 from time spent on homefront matters and family relationships. If you are single, important friendships should develop pleasingly over the course of the year and become a central focus of your life. In the spring, you could meet someone who will play a key role in your life, possibly as part of a celebratory event.
Tiger Health
Tigers could suffer the effects of exhaustion this year without even realizing they have overexerted themselves. It is in your best interest to take extra precautions to ensure you get enough sleep, and to practice healthful exercise and good nutrition habits to allow your body to recover from overindulgences, of which there may be many. Intensity and high stakes in almost every area of your life make you feel alive, but place stress on your overall health, something with which you may have to cope later. Let 2010 be the year you learn to love green foods. If you have experienced mental setbacks in recent years, you should benefit psychologically from new beginnings now.
Tiger Wealth
This year is likely to bring an increase in the Tiger's wealth. Money could flow from unanticipated sources, and income is likely to increase. You will be best served financially by setting aside windfalls as savings. The temptation and, possibly, social pressure to consume your new profits could be strong. However, it would be a mistake to assume money will be here to stay. Maximize your financial opportunities, but don't lose your head. Consider making large purchases at a discount and hunt for bargains, even if you can afford retail markups. Wisely shore up your position for the long term.
Check out Astrology.com for your horoscope.
Daily Flirt:Something only seems impossible, but if you break it down into lots of tiny little steps, it's not only possible -- it's probable. So what are you waiting for? Get started!
Daily Couples:
As befits your sign and style, you're electric at the moment -- but when it comes to being in a relationship, you've also got to be grounded. Make sure you're considering the both of you in terms of the real world.
Daily Singles:
It's time to transform your romantic life and make it what you've always wanted it to be. The stars want you to make the most of this opportunity, so some deep work on your part is necessary right now.
March 6, 2010 - Daily Overview for Chinese Tiger
You could feel as though people are ganging up on you. Try to resist the urge to be paranoid and wary of everyone. Just go about your business as usual and let these feelings fall to the wayside. Most likely your imagination is blowing them out of proportion.
Tiger
1902, 1914, 1926, 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010
Tiger Overview
Your year has arrived, and you are likely to find it more comfortable than most. That does not mean, however, it will be more successful. This could be a case of too much of a good thing. Yes, you are lucky. Yes, you enjoy taking a risk. You can bet the year's ambiance will encourage extremes even beyond your natural inclinations. In other words, you are vulnerable to suffer from overdoing it, from living on the edge and falling off it. You are going to have a few splendid successes in 2010. On the other hand, do not be surprised if your failures are even more spectacular. Self-control wins the day.
Tiger Rating
41% (3 favorable, 1 neutral and 8 unfavorable months)
Tiger Career
Tiger's natural leadership and charisma are enhanced this year, and you may find your ideas and initiatives get more traction than usual. It feels great to be listened to and treated like the boss. The only downside could come if you let this deference go to your head and fail to seek out others' expertise and experiential wisdom. Coworkers are not likely to reign you in, so you need to be extra vigilant to make wise, considered decisions and go out of your way to consult with respected peers and mentors. This year will present opportunities of your wildest imaginings, but you will need abundant self-discipline in order to make them realities. Success is in your reach, but beware of pride and overconfidence; it is not a foregone conclusion.
Tiger Relationships
Personal relationships are likely to be Tiger's strongest suit this year. Your active and rewarding social agenda could be the envy of most others; expect to have fun in 2010. But even this pales in light of your prospects for love. Romantic passion is likely to be at its highest mid-year, which is also a very lucky time for a Tiger to marry. Domesticity could hold much of your attention this year. You may get special satisfaction in 2010 from time spent on homefront matters and family relationships. If you are single, important friendships should develop pleasingly over the course of the year and become a central focus of your life. In the spring, you could meet someone who will play a key role in your life, possibly as part of a celebratory event.
Tiger Health
Tigers could suffer the effects of exhaustion this year without even realizing they have overexerted themselves. It is in your best interest to take extra precautions to ensure you get enough sleep, and to practice healthful exercise and good nutrition habits to allow your body to recover from overindulgences, of which there may be many. Intensity and high stakes in almost every area of your life make you feel alive, but place stress on your overall health, something with which you may have to cope later. Let 2010 be the year you learn to love green foods. If you have experienced mental setbacks in recent years, you should benefit psychologically from new beginnings now.
Tiger Wealth
This year is likely to bring an increase in the Tiger's wealth. Money could flow from unanticipated sources, and income is likely to increase. You will be best served financially by setting aside windfalls as savings. The temptation and, possibly, social pressure to consume your new profits could be strong. However, it would be a mistake to assume money will be here to stay. Maximize your financial opportunities, but don't lose your head. Consider making large purchases at a discount and hunt for bargains, even if you can afford retail markups. Wisely shore up your position for the long term.
Check out Astrology.com for your horoscope.
Friday, March 5, 2010
Feather Dancing Kittens
Have you seen this dancing kittens at yahoo.com? If not, well take a minute and watch this video here. I'm sure you will smile with the grace of these little kittens. Whoever the owner is, your video is awesome! You can check this out too at yahoo.com funny videos.
video.yahoo.com
Thursday, March 4, 2010
5 Easy Ways to Be Happy
Here are five ways to make happiness your mission:
1. Think about what you need the most -- right at this moment. Do you need some quiet time? A cup of tea? Maybe you need to read something uplifting, or a blog post to lift your spirits ... Whatever it is, allow yourself to do it. Give yourself a few minutes, even if you're in the middle of running errands, writing that memo, or paying your bills. Stop. Just do one pleasurable thing.
It makes us happy to see things around us. Go to the mall, hang out with your friends or play games on your computer. Give youself a break and take it easy onit that will make you happy. Less pressure, less stress and more friends makes me happy and most importantly being with my family and love ones is the best source of my happiness.
2. Burn one of your favorite candles or buy one. Sit and watch the flame. Think about getting in touch with yourself and your needs. Listen to your inner voice without seeking the right answers. Be still.
Candles make me feel calm and relax. Once in a while we have to take a short pause of our life and take a deep breath to meditate. Thinks of the things that make you relax and that can make you happy.
3. Stop being a news junkie. Quit perusing the web for the latest carjack, murder, health care initiative, or traffic report. Just cut the cord for a day. One day.
I happen to have a healthy body and young to get serious with the diet and stuff that other people are doing right now. So, I do not need to punish my self for enjoying my guilty pleassure. One thing I am focusing right now is how to get a job, and I would be very happy if I find one soon.
4. Start a daily appreciation or gratitude journal. Think of everyone in your life you're grateful for, why, and how they've changed your life. Add to this list daily.
That is why I decided to indulge in online journalling so I can have an outlet to express my thought at the same time learn more in life. I can appreciate my life better when I read that not only me having troubles in life. Life is life, with out problems it isn't life anymore.
5. Repeat this to yourself any time during the day you have a negative thought, "Everything is as it should be. I am OK."
This happiness tips is shared by Suzanne and I added some of my personal hints that made me happy for the last 23 years of life.
Do you have any happiness hints of your own? Have you tried any of these suggestions? Share them with us.
5 Easy Ways to Be Happy
It's all up to you!
by Suzanne Baran
1. Think about what you need the most -- right at this moment. Do you need some quiet time? A cup of tea? Maybe you need to read something uplifting, or a blog post to lift your spirits ... Whatever it is, allow yourself to do it. Give yourself a few minutes, even if you're in the middle of running errands, writing that memo, or paying your bills. Stop. Just do one pleasurable thing.
It makes us happy to see things around us. Go to the mall, hang out with your friends or play games on your computer. Give youself a break and take it easy onit that will make you happy. Less pressure, less stress and more friends makes me happy and most importantly being with my family and love ones is the best source of my happiness.
2. Burn one of your favorite candles or buy one. Sit and watch the flame. Think about getting in touch with yourself and your needs. Listen to your inner voice without seeking the right answers. Be still.
Candles make me feel calm and relax. Once in a while we have to take a short pause of our life and take a deep breath to meditate. Thinks of the things that make you relax and that can make you happy.
3. Stop being a news junkie. Quit perusing the web for the latest carjack, murder, health care initiative, or traffic report. Just cut the cord for a day. One day.
I happen to have a healthy body and young to get serious with the diet and stuff that other people are doing right now. So, I do not need to punish my self for enjoying my guilty pleassure. One thing I am focusing right now is how to get a job, and I would be very happy if I find one soon.
4. Start a daily appreciation or gratitude journal. Think of everyone in your life you're grateful for, why, and how they've changed your life. Add to this list daily.
That is why I decided to indulge in online journalling so I can have an outlet to express my thought at the same time learn more in life. I can appreciate my life better when I read that not only me having troubles in life. Life is life, with out problems it isn't life anymore.
5. Repeat this to yourself any time during the day you have a negative thought, "Everything is as it should be. I am OK."
This happiness tips is shared by Suzanne and I added some of my personal hints that made me happy for the last 23 years of life.
Do you have any happiness hints of your own? Have you tried any of these suggestions? Share them with us.
5 Easy Ways to Be Happy
It's all up to you!
by Suzanne Baran
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